A blessingway ceremony is usually a small, intimate gathering of the mother-to-be’s closest friends and family. Traditionally these circles were attended only by women — friends, sisters and elder female relatives — but many modern blessingways are more flexible and inclusive.
The guest list is typically chosen with care, as the atmosphere of the ceremony is shaped by the people present. Some people prefer a larger circle of women who can share their experiences of pregnancy and birth. Some also choose to invite partners or close non-female friends.
However a blessingway is less about numbers and more about gathering the people who make you feel good, who you can relax with during this nurturing and heartwarming event, with you at the centre.